Nobody Asked Us… But They Should Have!

Welcome to Nobody Asked Us… But They Should Have, where Mary Lynn and Ruby Jo—a sassy Southern mother-daughter duo—serve up unfiltered advice with a side of humor. From navigating modern etiquette to calling out everyday pet peeves, we’re here to share our take on how to live with a little more grace and a lot more fun. Pull up a chair, grab a glass of bubbly, and join us as we dish out wisdom on everything from dining decorum to dealing with manspreaders.

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The Etiquette of Texting: How Long Is Too Long to Reply?
The Etiquette of Texting: How Long Is Too Long to Reply?

Discover the modern etiquette of texting with our guide on why it’s okay to take your time before replying—unless it’s urgent. Learn how to balance politeness with personal boundaries in today’s fast-paced world, with tips on when to prioritize a quick response.

The Art of Saying No: Because “No” is a Complete Sentence
The Art of Saying No: Because “No” is a Complete Sentence

Perfect the art of saying no! Learn how to set boundaries with confidence, politeness, and grace. Discover tips on asserting yourself in any situation while maintaining your charm and poise and your boundaries!

Dressing Like a Woman: The Struggle is Real
Dressing Like a Woman: The Struggle is Real

Explore the art of dressing like a woman with our guide to dumping public expectations and leaning in to your own definition of “femininity.” Mary Lynn and Ruby Jo dive into how women just can’t seem to win when it comes to dressing—or smiling and laughing!